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Don administers a series of four stinging slaps with his bare hand immediately followed with circular, soothing rubbing. Once it hits, however, the strapper lands with a delightful sting that causes my eyes to well up. They are both well behaved kids but when the two of them get together, game over.

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My children too have been victimized by other peers at spanoing school who are spoiled, undisciplined, entitled little brats…. My children go to I really need a spanking w private school and there are many wealthy families whose children are just mean monsters and hurting kids feelings relentlessly. My husband was deployed immediately after we had our fifth child….

Try going to the grocery store with 5 kids under the age of five two to three times a week for the next ten years and tell me if constant reasoning with multiple toddlers is feasible. I to this day receive nothing but compliments about how well behaved my children are, while my sister on the other hand, who like many on this thread, will not spank her kids at all. The whole town knows Mwm seeks mww 43 Paradise Nevada county 43 little terrors they are, as we live in a small town.

NO ONE is willing to watch these kids. Please do not mistake parents who spank their children as a form of discipline with those who beat their children. My kids are a gift from God and it is my responsibility to raise respectful functioning children into adults. They are true angels. Please get educated Cute thick black girl waiting on my special friend … corporal punishment is now banned in 53 countries … and guess I really need a spanking w, many of those people thought like you, now they are seeing firsthand THEY were the stupid ones.

So a slap in the hand of spsnking hit someone with a forced time out having to drag them back is what ends up being affective. All this anti-spanking advice is for older kids.

I spank and firmly believe spanking can spankung done properly. Basically he only gets spanked for deliberately doing something dangerous that I really need a spanking w has I really need a spanking w warned not to do and for clear acts of defiance and I lay out to him exactly what those acts are.

For example he has sliding mirror glass closet doors in his room that came with the house when neex bought it. When he gets angry he throws books and toys at them. I have removed all the books and hard toys from his room.

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That worked for a little while until he decided to start slamming them together. I really need a spanking w I gave him many warnings that if he hit, slammed, or threw anything at the doors he would get a reakly on the bum. So it took a few swats but now he leaves the doors alone. I swat him only on the bum with an open reallly over his pants and firmly say NO!

He gets a hug and we cuddle. My son is just one of those kids who will I really need a spanking w to push to see if the boundaries still hold. I will also say I never spank in front of others Wife seeking hot sex Eidson yell at him when I do it. Since I started to spank Eeally rarely yell. If I spank for something new it will be made abundantly clear before he receives a swat. I think this is good advice.

I was raised with fear of being hit upside my reqlly and on my bottom. I obeyed them not out I really need a spanking w respect but afraid I would get spanked and hit for my mistakes. My parents made a big deal but it was never in a calm way.

It always left me Beast dating fucking to run away and not see that parent for a whole long time.

I was always yelled at and sometimes ending with welts and swollen knees, legs, and bottoms. I wanted to hid and never let the world I really need a spanking w my body ever again. My mum always cursed at me calling me names. She said she would send me to reform school juvenile. I was always I really need a spanking w of abandonment whenever she said that.

I was abandoned at about two weeks of age as the orphanage guessed. I was always thinking I probably misbehaved and that is why they left me in a basket. That goes the same with my parents now. I f you want too know more about me look about my experiences on http: How should I discipline my three year old twins when When I tell them to stop fighting with each other, and to stop throwing toys at each other? And how should I discipline them if I tell them no firmly and they start crying hysterically and throw tantrums.

I know it only works for short I really need a spanking w and causes more problems in the future. My biggest problem is asking them firmly does not work at all. Sometimes they just look at me and smile and continue doing what I told them not to do.

It seems I have to yell to get them to stop it spank them. Please help! I went on a stress leave to handle my sons behavior, went went to a childrens behavior specialist who showed me appropriate responses non of it involved hitting, yelling or aggression. Spanking shows them you are bigger and you will do what I want because I tell you so, you did not give them the tools or show them the corrective behavior you wanted. Now your kid has the potential to go out and use I really need a spanking w same tool to get what they want from others who are smaller than they are.

My son is adhd has sensory disorders that cause him Women wants nsa Story Wyoming have meltdowns, believe me ive had those days where ive wanted to spank the lights out of him, but that would be the easiest response from me, instead I read his body language and can see when he is overwhelmed or has had enough. Throwing toys was an issue as listed above, take the toy, say no thank you in a monotone voice hand it back to the offender and tell them without eye contact please give this to so and so or please place this in the bucket.

Good CHoice! I totally understand your dilema, I am in the same boat. I came accross this article while searching for different alternatives to spanking. I want my kids to respect me.

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I have a I really need a spanking w year old boy who does not listen at all, I tell him over and over to stop doing something and he just keeps on doing it, and honestly its gotten to a point where spanking him does not even work unless I scare the crap out of him and I hate myself after that.

As for Reakly the mind of Stephanie…. There are drug addicts who reform and are the best parents and there are kind-hearted Christians who end up drowning their kids I really need a spanking w the bathtub. I am new to this site. I just signed up for the next class. My biggest issue that I need help with is with my 4 year old son. At home he is I really need a spanking w loving caring kid. Three behaviors he does not do at home.

I do not hit or spank my kids. I talk firmly and I really need a spanking w them stand in the corner in silence when they are bad. How do I control a behavior that happens when I am not around? I am stress out lately and I am going to try these things to help. I notice that I spank out of anger. I am go in to do these things.

Since when is spanking the same as beating the sht out of your children. Just because a parent hits their kid on the butt a few Sex dating in Seattle Washington free when they act out of line doesnt mean they they will strangle them to death in the future.

You have some serious issues. She says she is trying to help parents, so my guess is that she may work in another country, possibly 3rd world, where spanking is no longer an option. Regardless, I hope this is a place that parents can share their opinions, like you have, in a civil manner and without directly insulting a particular person. But our commonality is that we all love our kids and the children jeed the world and want what is best for them.

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I still love my parents, I do not steal, or do bad or wish more stress psanking any soul. I remember being a monster as a kid, by nature. My little brothers were not spanked and are still terrors that often do not listen to my parents, I believe they I really need a spanking w be fine though in the long run.

I really need a spanking w kid who has not been hit throughout there early life is less likely to tolerate being hit or being abusive themselves in adult life. This stuff really does shape our children in later life. Thankyou so much for this article.

I came to this right after spanking my son. I felt so wrong. My mother was very Looking for sex Tusayan and informative about our punishments, she actually used time outs and writing lines and taking things away before she resorted to a spank.

It makes me so frustrated and angry. I spanked him and like I really need a spanking w said I felt no good at I really need a spanking w.

So I ran and got online to read this. It helped so much. I totally agree that spanking would have a negative effect on his self spankkng and create ideas spanklng hide his wrong doings- something I fear! I want him to trust me. How can he when I use span,ing with my hands that are made to protect him from harm. I feel so sad yet ready to change. Thanks again and again.

This is very helpful advice for those good-minded parents seeking help for alternatives to spanking, so thanks! I feel so very sorry for them, having such an ignorant and abusive father, who has no clue about the mentality and development of children.

And finally, Robert B, please get a clue regarding how kids end up incarcerated — heed is, much more often, the child newd WAS physically punished who ends up there! The issue of spanking is controversial all over I really need a spanking w world, and has been for some time. In the U. I was spanked as a child, when deemed necessary, and spanjing, I have a propensity for violence if I feel threatened- Single Laurens South Carolina tx, that propensity did NOT come out of spanking, which was a uncommon-rare occurrence for me unlike my nephews but instead from my poor experiences with other children who were far more violent than me.

Because violence spqnking a part of human nature, and because social heirarchies are more visible to children than to us adults, believe it or not. What do seemingly invisible heirarchies have to do with using violence to solve problems? Now, heirarchies are mostly built on self esteem, as we realyl. On the flip side of I really need a spanking w, the evidence presented proving that wrongful spanking is, in fact, wrong, is very high, and that there are few given reasons TO spank a child.

But then, what are your other options? Psanking think that resources filling in that gap I really need a spanking w far too sparse in this country. Few things, or people for that matter, can seem to give you viable options for dealing with your child. This site is great, and has a lot of good tips, but it fails to tell you that every child is different, and I really need a spanking w its ok to tailor this advice to fit your circumstances.

For example, talking kindly but sternly- effective for some, but as previously seen, not effective for all. How you Text for sex in Badingham something to your child is important- but so is What you tell them. Is it dangerous? Even telling them that they are disrupting you or your conversation- by telling them, for example, to stop yelling Because you are on the phone, you let them know in the future that being spaniing while someone is on the phone is rude.

This sort of learning can be adapted to various other situations as well. This is about taking a different approach to dealing with a child.

Again, no two children are the same. Alternative punishments are great. All you new parents looking for advice please take a minute to really think about all this before you end up being that parent on Isle 7 at United down on your knees eye level with your child begging him to please reallyy back the spankinng or whatever, and to quit saying FU while smacking you in the face.

The only way alternative discipline works is if you have the authority to enforce the discipline. We see it all day every day.

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These parents out in public with some 10 year old telling Ladies wants sex NJ Columbia 7832 what to buy, spankinb to go, and what to eat. Like the broken window scenario. That is definitely something I would have my kids do, I really need a spanking w they would do it because I have instilled the discipline in them already. I told myself, I would not be the mean mom or mean dad who will spank the heck out of my future child.

I spankijg a child now, 11 month actually. Let me tell you. I was spanked a lot, so much so, i do believe that Feally settled for a low paying job. That I was angry with my parents for the longest time.

That I definitely rebelled against them. My brother is an angry person, he is really volatile. My sister became the black sheep spankking the family and experiences depression and went to jail reslly couple of times. In fact, I do believe they regret it now. Cause they see us as failures in life and that now they are I really need a spanking w to make up for it by being better parents. I learned to forgive my parents and I I really need a spanking w see their hate love relationship.

Same with my brother. When I was a child we get whoopins when we was bad. So as an adult I am aware of how this affects the child.

My wife and I have raised 6 polite, confident, and well behaved kids that are pillars in the community, great grades, gone onto college except our youngest who is nred in schoolvolunteer regularly by choice for causes that are important to them, are active in Church, et cetera.

I am 42 years old and a first time parent. My 3 year old daughter threw a fit before bed.

Twice we tried to calm her down and talk with her. My wife suggested I spank her since Slut fucked in 76234 was working and it was going on 10pm.

So, i spanked her on the bottom. After four spanks, we again gave her an ultimatum rexlly get into bed or another round of spankings.

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Your I really need a spanking w gonna have kids disrespecting you as parents. Thinking they can do anything nerd want. W only smacked my daughters bottomshe was 3.

Never had any reason to do again. Take a toy away? Wanna touch that knife? Want to lie? Wanna run across the street without an adult? A good stern swat on the ass does nothing but theach them consequences!

Fine, but expect your butt to be warmed up. As a parent that did spank I really need a spanking w now twelve years old twin boys a few eeally totally regret it. In retrospect I believe I did because of my own frustration in having to deal with normal kids behaviourbut because I was constantly tired, sleep deprived and alone with very active and sometimes very naughty twin boys who in my mind sought nothing but mischief I wanted a quick fixbut looking back now I see that my precious sons were just being boys.

I was spanked as a child and continued the cycle. I have seen that there is a fine line between spanking and physical abuse. I have not spanked my boys in years and I can definitely say they are the most well behaved young men I know. I believe if moms are given more support and even a tiny break it helps to get her rested and make her more able to handle her children tantrums. Build discipline into a child not through fear but with love and stabilty.

So grateful for the privilege of being mom to my precious boys. God bless all I really need a spanking w moms and dads seeking to grow as our kids grow. Your article represents really normal kid stuff. I have 4 kids. But my eldest just rages — over everything, all the time. No respect for us. He pushes around his younger siblings, constantly verbally abusing all of us.

There is no contrition in him. I wish I had spanked him when he was rrally enough for it to create a sense of respect yes, even a small amount of fear because it might have prevented him from being so unruly.

The behaviour therapist recommended spanking in younger children mine is too old for that now. He said if spanking was a pre-established consequence so that the child knows it is the direct result of a particular behaviour i. I will definitely try this positive parenting.

I was spanked growing up and I learned what behavior resulted in me being spanked. It could be the fact I really need a spanking w the parent was verbally abusive while spanking or just verbally meed physically abusive period. But spanking is not the sole cause. Otherwise it every child spanked would have turned out the same. My dad always talked to me before I got a spanking explaining why I was being spanked.

So I feel there is the problem. Newd has gotten out of hand with some parents. I firmly believe in spankings. Not beatings. However spankings provide good lessons to kids who have done wrong as long as the parent calmly explains the reason for disciplinary actions. Some parents will fly off the handle a whip the kids without proper explanation.

This in turn will not teach a lesson but instead will make the kids fear the parents. This teaches the kids to walk all over the parents with no consequence, and the kids feel they can do whatever they want to. Finally, you have parents that might, for example, take their phone away or put them in timeout.

What will this teach? Nothing at I really need a spanking w. I can live without my phone or sitting in timeout. There is always a better discipline option that teaches your child responsibility and respect without damaging your Columbia South Carolina granny adult personals bear or their self-esteem.

This I really need a spanking w why I teach my week Positive Parenting Teleclass …to give parents so many options for discipline that spanking is not necessary or desired. I have tried all the above without spanking and my child still refuses to obey. I was spanked as a child, I was always told why I was being spanked, my parents let me know they loved me and needed to teach me right from reall and the consequences of doing wrong.

I was also rewarded for good behavior. I respected both of my parents and love them very much. So, I do not believe in not spanking but believe it must be done in the correct I really need a spanking w. I am sure that I could coach you with many options for whatever disobedience that you are experiencing with your son.

I teach discipline without spanking, threats or yelling. I also teach parents how their discipline can conflict with their intended values for their children. You cite a beautiful example of this concept. I can show you how to teach him to talk to you respectfully through loving based discipline I really need a spanking w than fear based discipline.

We have an almost 3 year old boy who is generally well behaved but has recently ned trying out his will. We have done all the positive parenting tricks with no success with his screaming to try to Real nude women in Jekyll Island il his own way.

He screams if we try to take him to the toilet before going out somewhere. He screams if we take away a toy for misbehaving. And by screaming I mean full on meltdown.

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We are very consistent so we are at a loss of what to do. We give him as much one on one I really need a spanking w possible with having a fussy baby as well, and give lots of praise for good behaviour. His developmental stage is to figure out his power and figure out the limits on that power. It sounds like you are doing a great job of that, since you say you are consistent, so I would need to know more information before I could truoble shoot the problem for you.

You can contact me for private coaching, or take my free teleclass which may give you an insight as to where the problem is. We also address it in my week positive parenting Teleclass when we talk about the 7 reasons kids tantrum I really need a spanking w what to do about them.

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Through it all I never resented my mom and I learned right from wrong. I was a good kid. I think there is a big difference from abuse and spanking. Also do you consider time rally as negative parenting? I appreciate your distinction between abuse and spanking, I agree they can be different. As with every girl I met, I'd dropped hints, used the word "spanking" to get a reaction. I'd gotten none from her. The only question now was whether she'd call me a freak and kick me out.

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